In the age of screenshots and resurfaced clips, the internet moves fast — often faster than truth, context, or compassion.

Recently, Erika Kirk found herself under renewed scrutiny, with online critics accusing her of inconsistency regarding her dating history before meeting her late husband, Charlie Kirk. Old images and appearances were pulled back into public view, sparking debates that quickly crossed from curiosity into condemnation.

But faith asks a harder question than the internet ever does:

What is the purpose of digging into a person’s past?

Scripture reminds us:

“The one without sin among you should be the first to throw a stone.” — John 8:7

There is a difference between accountability and cruelty.
There is a difference between truth-seeking and humiliation.
And there is a difference between clarifying facts and weaponizing someone’s past — especially someone who has already endured profound loss.

Faith does not require us to pretend people are perfect.
But it does require us to resist becoming prosecutors in matters that do not belong to us.

A person’s past relationships — especially before marriage — are not proof of hypocrisy, nor do they cancel grief, faith, or personal growth. Christianity has never taught that redemption begins only after a flawless history.

If anything, the Gospel tells us the opposite:

“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come.” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

In moments like this, believers are called to a higher standard — not silence, but wisdom. Not denial, but restraint. Not gossip, but grace.

The internet may thrive on exposure, but faith thrives on transformation.

And while public figures will always face scrutiny, Christians must ask themselves:
Are we seeking truth — or just feeding outrage?

Because judgment without love does not reflect Christ.
It only reflects noise.